Parent Information

Babies and Beyond - Developmental Profile



Birth – 3 Months

"I see, hear, smell and taste. I cry to tell you I need something."

Within the first three months you will typically see your child make some or all of the following movements:

  • lift head up
  • holds chest up with arms.
  • sucks and swallow
  • put objects in their mouth.
  • startle easily.
  • turn head when cheek is touched.
  • has mostly reflexive movement patterns.

The following behaviors indicate that your infant is developing an awareness of their internal and external environment.

  • cries when hungry, in pain, tired or bored.
  • turns head toward familiar voices.
  • responds to change in temperature, light and sound.

In the first three months children typically use the following strategies to communicate:  

  • makes eye contact.
  • coos and gurgles.
  • cries to express needs.
  • smiles.
  • settles with familiar, friendly voice.

Socializing:

  • cries to express emotion.
  • smiles.
  • responds to touching, rocking and singing.
  • fusses when over-or under-stimulated.
  • does not sleep through night yet.
  • needs to be talked to lovingly.

Sexuality:

  • enjoys closeness of diapering and bathing.
  • is not aware of femaleness or maleness.
  • has spontaneous penile erections.
  • may have vaginal discharge.

Independence:

  • tries to soothe self by sucking fist.
  • needs plenty of sleep.
  • develops trust through regular routines.

Safety & Guidance:

  • support head and neck.
  • use safe pacifiers.
  • use Canadian approved infant car seat according to manufacturer’s instructions.
  • check temperature of bottle and bath water before use.
  • check mobiles, rattles and teething rings for loose/broken parts.
  • lay baby on back to sleep.
  • remove objects that cause suffocation.
  • keep babies off waterbeds.


3 – 6 Months

"I need to be close to you. Respond to my need for comfort and nourishment. I wiggle my body and try to talk to you."

Moving:

  • rolls from back to tummy and back.
  • sits with support.
  • sees, reaches for and holds objects.
  • bounces up and down in a supported standing position.
  • kicks feet.
  • waves hands in excitement.

Thinking:

  • recognizes familiar people.
  • swipes at objects.
  • discovers feet.
  • plays with hands.
  • anticipates actions (tenses when about to be picked up).

Communicating:

  • follows sound by moving head.
  • kicks in response to voice.
  • enjoys rhymes, chants, picture books.
  • gurgles and laughs.
  • begins babbling, used to get attention and express demands.
  • looks in response to own name.
  • make sounds like "ba", "ma", "da".

Socializing:

  • smiles when someone smiles and talks.
  • laughs.
  • looks at self in mirror.
  • initiates interaction by smiling, cooing, and crying.
  • needs routine baby care to provide security and sense of belonging.

Sexuality:

  • places hands in diaper area, touches penis or vagina.

Independence:

  • replaces reflexive movement patterns with learned movement.
  • has unpredictable sleep patterns.
  • needs opportunity for rest and sleep.

Safety & Guidance:

  • baby rolls – not to be left unattended.
  • provide safe area for baby to explore.
  • block stairways.
  • put safety plugs in electrical outlets.
  • remove small and breakable objects from reach.
  • use safety devices for cords – telephone, blind and electrical.
  • use screens for fireplace/woodstove.
  • protect baby from pets.

  "I trust and recognize who your are, and trust you will take care of me."


6 – 9 Months

" I notice when you leave the room, unfamiliar faces, places and things can scare me."

Moving:

  • sits alone.
  • stands with help.
  • moves forward on tummy.
  • rocks back and forth on hands and knees.
  • crawls.
  • attempts to pick up small items. (thumb and forefinger)  

Thinking:

  • transfers object from one hand to the other.
  • looks for hidden objects under cover.
  • plays peek-a-boo.
  • anticipates frequently occurring routines.

Communicating:

  • repeats sounds.
  • clicks tongue.
  • babbles in singing tones.
  • responds to objects frequently named.
  • uses gesture language (raises hands up to be picked up).

Socializing:

  • pats and pulls at familiar faces.
  • notices strangers.
  • laughs out loud
  • opens mouth to accept spoon.
  • may appear anxious with unfamiliar people.
  • enjoys being present at meal times.
  • imitates social contact by vocalizing , dropping toys or food.

Sexuality:

  • may hold penis when erect.
  • observes family and significant others who convey messages about sexuality.


9 – 12 Months

Independence:

  • plays and amuses self for short periods of time.
  • feeds self finger foods.
  • establishes sleep patterns with parental support.

Safety & Guidance:

  • provide consistency in daily routine.
  • safety proof your home, yard and vehicle.
  • put poisons in top locked cupboard.
  • pad or remove furniture with sharp edges.
  • keep plastic bags out of reach.
  • remove tablecloths.
  • remove poisonous plants.

"I want to explore my environment. I need you to watch me."


1 – 2 Years

"I know you are there even when I can’t see you. I am a separate person."

Moving:

  • pulls self up to standing position.
  • climbs stairs.
  • stands alone.
  • walks alone.
  • pulls string toys.
  • turns handles.
  • holds object in either hand.
  • grips crayon in fist.

Thinking:

  • empties and fills containers.
  • points to three body parts.
  • stacks objects.
  • plays with simple puzzles.
  • scribbles with crayon.
  • turns pages in a book (a few at a time).
  • points to pictures in a book.

Communicating:

  • answers "what’s that?"
  • asks for "more".
  • indicates needs by gestures and sounds.
  • says first words.
  • asks for common food item.
  • imitates sounds for common animals.
  • uses sentence-like tones.
  • uses "no".

Socializing:

  • likes to push and pull toys.
  • says own name
  • takes part in a game for a couple of minutes (rolls a ball).
  • hugs/carries a doll.
  • repeats actions that produce laughter.
  • is easily distracted.
  • makes a choice between two items.

Sexuality:

  • is aware of and plays with genitals.

Independence:

  • stays dry for at least two hours.
  • eats with a spoon, holds a cup.
  • takes clothes off.
  • tries to wash self.
  • wants to do things independently.

Safety & Guidance:

take strings out of hoods in clothing.

  • put safety locks on doors and cupboards.
  • stay with children playing outdoors.
  • keep tools out of reach.
  • remove damaged or dangerous toys.
  • provide extra supervision near water.
  • teach child personal safety.

"Support my exploration. I’m quick to figure out how to climb up to high places.
Tell me what I can do."


2 – 3 Years

"I like to paint and play. I have lots of energy. I think others think like me."

Moving:

  • walks backwards.
  • walks down stairs with help.
  • runs forward.
  • throws and kicks a ball.
  • squats.
  • holds a crayon between thumb and pointer finger.
  • puts on T-shirt.
  • jumps with both feet.

Thinking:

  • gets an object from another room.
  • draws a line.
  • matches simple objects and colours.
  • unwraps small packages.
  • takes things apart.
  • strings large beads.
  • takes on imaginary roles.

Communicating:

  • asks "why", "what".
  • uses a specific word for bathroom.
  • combines two to five words.
  • answers "where", and "who" questions.
  • says "mine" or "me".
  • understands and uses action words (up, under, jump).
  • talks when playing, clarity increases.

Socializing:

  • defends own possessions, saying "mine."
  • dances to music.
  • pretends to do adult activities.
  • plays beside other children.
  • makes choices.
  • cooperates about half of the time.
  • starts to show concern for others.

Sexuality:

  • relates self to sex role stereotypes.
  • identifies male and female from outward characteristics.
  • is curious about other people’s body parts.
  • looks for similarities and differences.

Independence:

  • begins bladder and bowel control.
  • pours juice from a small container into a cup.
  • eats with fork and spoon (usually messily).
  • asks to be to the bathroom.
  • naps once a day.

Safety & Guidance:

  • teach personal hygiene (hand washing).
  • talk about safety and danger.
  • play in fenced, supervised areas.
  • lock up adult materials, guns, matches, lighters.
  • continue Canadian approved car set use until child reaches weight recommended.

"I have lots of emotions. Help me to understand myself."


3 – 4 Years

"I like to play with others but it’s hard to wait and take a turn."

Moving:

  • jumps forward.
  • walks to tiptoe.
  • marches.
  • catches a ball some of the time.
  • unzips.
  • dances.
  • rides a tricycle.

Thinking:

  • puts simple puzzle together.
  • copies a circle.
  • draws and names a picture.
  • names three shapes – circle, triangle, square.
  • is aware of differences.
  • begins to understand quantity.
  • identifies colours.
  • begins to question the world.

Communicating:

  • tells full name when asked.
  • repeats rhymes, chants and fingerplays.
  • names "big" and "little" objects.
  • counts in imitation.
  • bosses others.
  • uses understandable sentences.
  • carries on conversations.
  • includes, different endings on words (-s, -ed, -ing).

Socializing:

  • sings and dances to music.
  • plays beside and sometimes with other children using similar materials.
  • shows understanding of emotion.
  • has preference for some people.
  • pretends with dress-up clothes, dolls, animals.
  • plays alone for short periods of time.
  • sometimes has imaginary friends.

Sexuality:

  • uses body humour.
  • asks questions about babies and personal body parts.
  • has beliefs about pregnancy, especially delivery.
  • may participate in mutual body exploration with friends of same age.
  • identifies gender roles according to family beliefs.

Independence:

  • blows own nose (with reminders).
  • puts on and takes off clothes.
  • brushes teeth.
  • occasionally pees or poops in pants.

Safety & Guidance:

  • teach street, animal and traffic safety.
  • practice family fire drills.
  • talk to your child about keeping self safe with others.

"Sometimes I’m bossy because I know about so many new things.
Give me a few choices instead of telling me, ‘no’."


4 – 5 Years

"I dress myself, I like to make decisions, I feel bigger."

Moving:

  • rides a bicycle with training wheels.
  • jumps on one foot.
  • catches a ball.
  • somersaults.
  • cuts with scissors.
  • pastes with glue.
  • runs – changes directions.
  • walks down stairs alternating feet.

Thinking:

  • asks for help.
  • finds "top" and "bottom."
  • understands "in front", behind, beside."
  • finds objects that are similar and different.
  • makes clay shapes.
  • draws recognizable pictures.
  • copies shapes and letters.
  • knows primary colours.

Communicating:

  • listens to ideas of others.
  • tells jokes.
  • understands symbols.
  • shows interest in printing.
  • uses plurals and past tense.
  • answers telephone.
  • uses the words, "will", "hers", "his".
  • asks meanings of words.
  • tells long story accurately.

Socializing:

  • runs, jumps, plays games.
  • uses imagination.
  • tells stories.
  • plays with other children, takes turns.
  • acts out puppet stories.
  • follows directions.
  • likes helping.
  • looks for "fairness" in others’ decision making.

Sexuality:

  • may show preference for opposite-sex parent.
  • may compete with same-sex parent.

Independence:

  • dresses and undresses self.
  • tries to tie shoes.
  • serves self at meal times.
  • shows preference for some foods.
  • helps with simple household chores.

Safety & Guidance:

  • make sure bicycle helmet is worn.
  • supervise bike-riding activities.
  • teach and model road safety.
  • teach telephone number, address and identify a safe neighbour.
  • set guidelines for where and with whom your child plays and follow-up.

"I have lots of ideas I want to share with you.
Talk to me and teach me how to do things for myself."

 

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